ACCEPT

Is this it? Have all problems found their destination - me?

So many sayings and proverbs and scriptures state that problems are good - they teach you how to manage pain and you grow from it. But, in the moment - the very state of overwhelm, it is so very difficult to be positive! At this stage, you start questioning so many things - yourself, your actions, your family, the situation etc. Blame them. It makes things easier because you absolve yourself of being part of the problem. Why blame yourself or accept that you are part of the problem when there are so many to blame AND no one to defend themselves?

Is it the easy way out or is it really their fault? Maybe that’s not the most important thing to figure out right now. Fighting facts is probably the worst way to waste energy, time and resources. How do you get past the challenge? How do you move on with life or work?

Accept it. Say it out loud to yourself alone, in front of the mirror and accept what has happened.

Doing this doesn’t make you small, wrong or a bad person. You’re better off doing this so that you can solve the problem OR do what needs to be done to move on and do better in life!